Child Abuse

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There are many people we meet that seem "weird" to us. What if this person had been abused as a kid? How many years did he need to recover, or what if what happened to him is unrecoverable and his unfortunate past has become a part of his desperate personality? This post is about the hidden bruises of children that are not aware that they have the right to live a healthy and normal life.

Quick Facts:

• Over 3 million (3,195,000) children were reported for child abuse in only the United States in 1997!
• Around 85% of prison inmates were abused as children!
• 1 in 3 girls and 1 in boys are sexually abused by an adult at some time during childhood!
• Most sexual abusers are someone from the family, or someone the kids know. Not some stranger waiting in the corner with a lollipop!
• More than 80% of child abusers are parents!
• Child abuse occurrence happens at the child's home on most cases!
• 1 out of 10 babies are born to an alcoholic or a drug addict mother!
• Mothers that drink or take drugs while pregnancy are considered to be abusing their baby!

Types of child abuse:

• Child Neglect: When kids are not given what they need and are not taken care of. Usually this type of child abuse is not realized by the child until they are older.
• Emotional Abuse: When kids get yelled at, threatened, frightened, or intimidated. Of course there is a fine line between disciplining and just being yelled at for no reason.
• Physical Abuse: Child abuse is the easiest to spot. kids could be spotted at school, or anywhere in public with bruises and marks that show that they are being physically abuse.
• Sexual Abuse: Is when the child is forced to interact in any sort of sexual act.

Signs and Symptoms:

These signs might not necessarily indicate that the child is being abused unless a number of these symptoms appear on the child then it is a very good possibility that the child is suffering abuse:

Sexual Abuse:

• Showing knowledge about sex in a way that is inappropriate for his age.
• Medical problems such as chronic itching, pain in the genitals, or venereal disease.
• Extreme reactions such as suicide attempts, extreme depression, or running away.
• Sudden loss of appetite.
• Sudden change in personality.
• Lack of trust, or fear from people.

Physical Abuse:

• Unexplained injuries or burns.
• Improbable excuses, or trying to hide the source of injury.
• Refusal to undress for gym.
• Fear of medical help or examination.
• Aggression towards others.

Emotional Abuse:

• Sudden speech disorder.
• Continual self-depreciation (I'm ugly, I'm stupid, I'm...)
• Overreactions to mistakes.
• Inappropriate respond to pain (I deserve this!)

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Neglect:

• Always hungry.
• Poor personal hygiene.
• Constant tiredness.
• Poor clothing.
• Untreated medical problems.
• No, or little social relationships.

It is possible to find a child having several of types of abuse.

Solution:

If anyone notice a combination of the signs above, please don't hesitate to report about it. If you don't and the child suffers from abuse long enough, you are part of the crime, therefor, you are also abusing that child by neglecting him/her!

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If a child turns over to you to tell you that he is being abused:

1. Go talk somewhere quiet.
2. Believe what the kid is saying.
3. Be calm.
4. Listen, but do not press for information.
5. Tell the child that you are glad that he/she told you.
6. Let the child feel secure, rather than fear because he/she told you.
7. If the child told someone else (teacher, principle), contact that person for the good of the child.
8. Acknowledge that the child has angry, sad or even guilty feelings for what happened.

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